Buy this and read it before your motivation fades. You’ll be glad you did.
Continuing from yesterday’s note about New Year’s resolutions.
One thing a lot of people say they’re going to do every year is read a certain number of books. And most of them don’t. I usually don’t either.
I tend to aim pretty high, and even when I miss, I probably still read more than most people. But that’s not the point.
If you’re one of those people who says you’re going to read more this year, and the iron is still hot while you’re still motivated, here’s a suggestion: Start With No by Jim Camp.
It’s a book about negotiation, but not in the way most people think about negotiation.
It’s not about bullying people.
It’s not about tricks or pressure or “winning” by force.
It’s a system. A counterintuitive one. And if you actually use it the way it’s meant to be used, it removes a lot of the stress and friction from deals.
Once you really understand it, it can feel like you’re playing a completely different game than the person across the table.
Unless they’ve read it too. In that case, things get even easier. You either make a deal that works for both sides or you don’t. No drama. No wasted time.
I read it at least once a year. At this point I’ve almost got it memorized, and I still re-read it. That’s how useful it is.
And it’s not just for business.
Everything is negotiation.
Getting your kid to go to bed on time.
Deciding where you’re going to eat.
Whether a police officer gives you a ticket.
All of it.
When you get better at negotiation, your entire life improves, not just your income or your career.
So if you’re going to read one book while the motivation is still there, start there.
Click below to go to my Recommended Reading page. You can order it through Amazon there.
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