There’s a reason I don’t want people to feel cornered. I know how it feels.
I write on here often that the reason many people don’t check into their land’s value isn’t because they don’t want to know or don’t think it’s smart business to know.
It’s everything that tends to go with it.
You just want to know what’s happening, and next thing you know you feel like you’re in a timeshare presentation. Where you feel like the thing isn’t going to end until you say yes, no matter how many times and ways you say no.
It just happened to me.
There are a couple commercial real estate platforms that sell subscriptions with various marketing and data tools. I’ve tried both over the years. For what I do, they usually aren’t worth carrying full-time.
If I need exposure for a particular property, I can just pay to promote that listing specifically and be done with it.
What they really want to sell is data.
Buyer information.
Seller information.
Mailing lists.
Contact databases.
All of that could theoretically be useful to me.
So they call me. And call. And call.
I generally ignore the calls. But sometimes one slips through because I think it might actually be somebody calling about property. Like the other day.
The guy complimented me on the number of listings I have, started talking about how much local buyer and seller information they had access to, and wanted to meet and show me the platform.
I told him it was probably going to cost more than I was willing to spend.
To his credit, he at least admitted pricing was somewhat dynamic instead of pretending there was one magic number for everyone. I eventually got a rough range out of him anyway.
It was more than I wanted to spend. As expected. I told him I didn’t want to waste his time.
Didn’t matter.
He still wanted to meet. He suggested a day that was already blocked out on my calendar. When I told him that, he just pushed it back a week.
Eventually I just said okay because I was tired of the conversation and figured at least I’d get a free cup of coffee out of it.
Now I’m probably going to have to say no several more times later.
And eventually I may have to be rude about it.
I don’t really blame the guy. I understand why companies sell that way. It must work often enough to keep doing it.
But it also reminds me why so many people avoid talking to agents, salespeople, and brokers in the first place.
It’s not that people hate buying things. And it’s usually not even that they hate being sold.
They hate the feeling that they are no longer fully in control of the conversation.
There’s a difference between staying in touch and trying to corner somebody.
If you ask me for a valuation, am I going to follow up lightly from time to time?
Of course. It only makes sense to.
But am I going to make you feel trapped in a process you can’t comfortably back out of?
Never.
You should always feel like you can say no.
The minute somebody feels like they can’t comfortably say no anymore, the entire interaction changes.
PS – Most landowners are not planning to sell today.
But situations change. Sometimes gradually, sometimes all at once. The people who already understand what they own usually make better decisions than the ones trying to figure it out under pressure.
That’s what the MBR Land Reality Check is for.
It looks at nearby sales, current competition, development activity, utility considerations, and the things affecting value that most people never think about until it matters.
You don’t have to do anything with the information.
But is it a bad idea to know where things stand?
Get yours here.
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