Only use your powers for good
Yesterday I mentioned that I use a different kind of negotiating system than most people. Once you get good at it, it honestly feels like you’re playing a whole different game.
Most folks think negotiation only happens in land deals (or maybe car deals, I’ve got a few stories there for another day). But it’s everywhere.
Trying to get your kid to clean their room?
Negotiation.
Deciding where to eat?
Negotiation.
Need time off work for a midweek appointment?
Yep—negotiation.
And the better you are at it, the smoother things go and the better your outcomes.
A lot of people assume great negotiators are pushy. Ruthless, even. Like the guy at the dealership who’ll say anything to close the deal. They’ll lean hard on pressure, power, and urgency. And sure, if you’ve got leverage, sometimes it makes sense to use it.
But ask yourself how you feel after most car-buying experiences. Even when you like the car, you probably leave thinking, “Never again with that place.”
That’s the problem with strong-arm tactics: even when they “work,” they burn bridges. People don’t come back. You win the deal but lose the relationship.
The method I use isn’t weak or soft. It’s not about caving in or rushing to “yes.” If that’s your approach, the sharks out there will eat you alive. But it does lower the tension, make deals easier to close, and keep everyone on good terms when it’s done.
Sometimes it works so well it’s almost scary.
Quick story: my wife bought something online from a vendor that was very clear, no refunds, all sales final. And of course, it broke almost immediately. Not a fortune, but enough to be frustrating.
She reached out. They repeated the no-refund policy. She was even more upset.
So I wrote a short message, maybe three or four sentences, and told her to send it. She read it and said, “There’s no way this works.”
I said, “What have you got to lose?”
She sent it. Refund came back immediately.
She thought it was magic. Then she looked at me suspiciously and said, “Wait… have you been using this on me?”
I hadn’t. I only use my powers for good.
If you want to know how it works,you can buy the book at the link below — only use it for good.
(I get a small commission if you buy through this link, but it doesn’t cost you anything extra.)
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