Tag: Client Relationships

  • Have You Heard About the Miracle Hangover Cure?

    Have You Heard About the Miracle Hangover Cure?

    One thing I’ve learned — about business, health, and life in general — is that you can’t tactic your way out of a structural problem.

    If the big stuff isn’t handled correctly, what you do with the small stuff doesn’t really matter. Maybe it works in the immediate term, but it won’t work long term.

    Most people try anyway. It’s easier. It feels productive. It gives you that little hit of “I’m doing something.”

    But it never lasts.

    Think about weight loss.

    People jump on crash diets, detox teas, miracle supplements, or now the latest round of drugs. And look — if a doctor prescribes you something and it helps, great. But none of those things fix the basic structure.

    Your life still has to be built around eating like an adult and moving your body a little. If the structure isn’t right, the tactics are temporary.

    (And if you look at me, you might say I’m not the one who should be talking about that.)

    Same with hangovers. You can chug coffee, pound aspirin, and inhale greasy food, but the structural solution is simple: don’t overdrink in the first place. That one change eliminates all the elaborate morning-after tactics people swap like stock tips.

    Most agents live entirely in tactics. Post more. Boost the ad. Send a mailer. Hack the algorithm. Pay for leads. Hustle harder. They chase the next trick because their structure is wrong.

    The structure — the part underneath everything — is the set of principles you operate from. Things like:

    • Be honest about value.
    • Tell people what they need to hear.
    • Keep clients for years, not transactions.
    • Make your marketing useful instead of loud.
    • Communicate like an adult.
    • Have a real process for valuation, pricing, and negotiation instead of winging it.

    If those structural pieces are solid, almost any tactic becomes productive.

    A mailer works. A blog post works. A phone call works. Because the foundation is right, the activity sits on something stable.

    You’re not trying to manufacture momentum out of thin air — you’re adding fuel to a fire that’s already burning.

    But if the structure is wrong?

    Then the tactics are just noise. They might get you a listing here or there, but they don’t build anything.

    You’ll have a great month followed by three dead ones. You’ll land clients who treat you like a commodity.

    You’ll work twice as hard for half the result because you’re patching problems you created by ignoring the fundamentals.

    And here’s the uncomfortable part: building the right structure isn’t flashy. You can’t brag about it on Instagram. It’s slow habits, consistent communication, telling the truth when it costs you money, and doing things well when nobody’s watching.

    Once the structure is right, tactics finally matter. They multiply. They compound. They stop being desperate moves and start being force multipliers.

    Most people will keep reaching for the aspirin instead of fixing the drinking problem. But if you build the right structure first, you won’t need nearly as many tactics — and the ones you do use will actually work.

    PS — You’re probably not an agent, and probably aren’t buying or selling land today. But the point still applies to you: set the stage ahead of time and things go much smoother when it’s showtime.

    I offer a free, no-obligation opinion of value on any non-residential property. You’ll get real comps in your area and everything pertinent to your situation.

    Development starting nearby? New roads? Utility issues on the horizon? You’ll know about it.

    Delivered with integrity.

    Based on a system developed over 20+ years, not overnight tactics.

    Is it ever a bad idea to be prepared?

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  • It Works Both Ways

    It Works Both Ways

    Yesterday I talked about the importance of avoiding problem customers:

    But smart people know it works both ways. Good customers demand — and deserve — the best.

    If you’ve been reading here for a while, you know I refer often to personal and business development books. If you’ve paid attention, you’ve probably noticed they all focus on principles, not tactics.

    In other words, they aim to shape the kind of person you become. Someone people want to deal with for the long haul. Not someone relying on short-term tricks that may work once, but leave a bad taste.

    Think about buying a car.

    If you hesitate on the deal, the salesman often switches into closing mode. Suddenly the car’s “about to be sold.” Or the higher payment “pays for itself” in lower maintenance.

    It may get the sale. But it also makes you not want to come back.

    And the higher the level of the client, the worse those tactics work.

    A close that might move an average buyer just gets you laughed out of the room by sophisticated operators.

    Those clients know what they’re doing. Most of the time, better than you do. (And even if not, they think they know better.)

    Push them, and you won’t change their mind. You’ll just get crossed off their list.

    That’s not to say everyone needs to be handled the same way.

    If my client is someone who inherited a piece of land and doesn’t know much about it, as their broker I’m the expert. I don’t pressure them, but I might need to guide them a little more.

    But if I’m working with a publicly traded homebuilder or a regional developer who’s been through countless complex deals, I’m not the expert. I’m more like a vendor. My job is to make the process as smooth as possible — not to tell them how to run their business.

    It’s one thing to sell cars to the public. It’s another to sell trucks to a construction company.

    That buyer already knows exactly what they need.

    Most of my buyer clients are investors or developers. They know their business. They also know that finding the right deal can take time. I’ve often mentioned how slow that process can be on the front end.

    And just as often, during that slow part, the agent on the other side suggests I try to “apply a little pressure.” Or say something that’s not quite true to move things along.

    No thanks.

    Over time, I’ve realized there’s probably a reason I have the clients I do — and other agents have the ones they have.

    Good customers deserve good representation.

    That’s the standard I want to live up to.

    Interested in getting on the right side of the Principles Vs. Concepts divide?

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