Tag: Perspective

  • The Sun Is Probably Coming Up Tomorrow

    The Sun Is Probably Coming Up Tomorrow

    Most people wake up these days and, they already know the world is ending before they’ve had their first cup of coffee.

    Used to be you’d flip on the morning news. Maybe Good Morning America. You’d hear some bad news, sure, but then there’d be a segment on a dog that learned to skateboard, or some heartwarming story about a kid raising money for his neighbor. You’d get the weather. Somebody would laugh too loud at something that wasn’t that funny.

    Now people roll over, grab the phone, and start scrolling. And the algorithm figured out a long time ago that outrage keeps you looking longer than a skateboarding dog does. So that’s what it feeds you, nonstop, before you’ve put your feet on the floor.

    Right now it’s the war that was going to end but now it isn’t (oh wait, yes it is, never mind it’s not). Gas is either already too high or about to get worse, depending on which story you read first. Or we’re living in a dystopian nightmare. It’s exhausting, it’ll ruin your morning or your whole day before it starts if you let it.

    But it’s always been this way, just maybe not quite as much in our faces.

    Just a few years ago we were all going to die. A sizable number of serious people were saying civilization was a few days away from coming apart. We’re still here.

    Before that, a particular election was going to send everything straight into the toilet. Whichever one you’re thinking of, someone said that about it. They all came and went and things are moving along. Most people would never even notice a difference if they weren’t told about it.

    Before that, the housing market had crashed and the same people who swore the crash wasn’t coming turned around and swore it would never recover. It recovered so much that now those same people say nobody can afford a house.

    Before that, terrorists were going to get us all. Hasn’t happened yet.

    Before that, the oceans were going to swallow everything if we didn’t figure out how to control the temperature of the sun. Still waiting on that one too, Al.

    Before that, nuclear holocaust by 1985. Wrong again.

    Before that, economic malaise was all we had to look forward to. Until things started growing so fast the 80s were known as the decade of greed.

    Eventually something is going to get us. That’s just the nature of things.

    But until then, you’ve got a life to live. And a morning to get through. If you spend it marinating in whatever disaster the algorithm decided you should be upset about today, you’ll make worse decisions, be harder to be around, and see problems everywhere, including in places that are actually fine.

    Here’s a pretty decent rule of thumb: if someone says it’s different this time or we will never recover from (insert problem here), they probably aren’t worth listening to.

    There will always be a reason to run and hide, if you just look for one.

    But the sun’s probably coming up tomorrow. Plan accordingly.

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  • Everything Is Over. Except It Isn’t.

    Everything Is Over. Except It Isn’t.

    When adversity hits, we act like this is the moment.

    If God doesn’t come through here, we’re not going to make it.
    If He doesn’t fix this, everything falls apart.
    If this doesn’t change, it’s over.

    And if we’re being honest, most of the time whatever is bothering us doesn’t get fixed.
    At least not quickly.
    And often not in the way we want.

    So we don’t just hurt.
    We resent.

    At the same time, we say something completely different.

    We say we believe we are destined to spend eternity with God.
    We say that is what we want more than anything.
    We say this life is temporary, and the next one is permanent.

    Those two claims don’t sit well together.

    Because when pressure comes, we don’t act like people who believe eternity is secure.
    We act like people who think this moment is the final verdict.

    We get angry at God.
    We accuse Him of being distant or unfair.
    We act like unanswered prayer means the story has ended.

    That reaction exposes something.

    It’s not that we don’t believe in eternity.
    It’s that we don’t let it govern anything when things get hard.

    Israel did the same thing.

    They had just witnessed deliverance so obvious it left no room for doubt.
    And yet the very next obstacle felt like the end of the world.

    The problem wasn’t that God failed them.
    It was that pain shrank their horizon.

    They couldn’t hold present suffering and eternal promise in the same frame.

    Neither can we.

    If we really believed eternity with God was settled, adversity would still hurt.
    But it wouldn’t feel catastrophic.
    Fear would still show up, but it wouldn’t get to decide what’s true.

    Instead, we act like God owes us rescue now,
    even while claiming to trust Him with forever.

    That contradiction doesn’t make us monsters.
    It makes us exposed.

    It shows how bent we are toward measuring God by immediate outcomes,
    even as we confess long-term faith with our mouths.

    The invitation isn’t to stop caring about this life.
    It’s to stop treating every hard moment like a referendum on God’s faithfulness.

    If everything were really over every time God didn’t fix things on our timeline,
    none of us would still be here.

    But we are.

    Which means God’s story was never as fragile as we act like it is.


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  • Ready or Not, Here Comes the Sun

    Ready or Not, Here Comes the Sun

    Earlier this week I had one of those mornings.

    I got up and my daughter’s car would not start. I immediately assumed it was going to be something expensive. At the same time, it was time to take my other daughter to buy her college books.

    I knew both things were coming. The car had a few issues that needed attention, but nothing urgent, so I had been putting it off. Same with the books. None of it was a surprise. But when it all landed at once, it felt like it was put right in my face.

    On top of that, I was busy at work.

    I felt pinched for time. I felt pinched for money. You know how that goes.

    I thought I was going to have to deal with all of it at once. Then it turned out the car problem I thought was major was not a major issue at all. It cost me zero dollars to fix.

    And instead of the school books being around six hundred dollars, they came in at a little over two hundred.

    So it turned out pretty good. Especially considering I got to spend a couple of hours with my daughter going to the college bookstore.

    It reminded me of something I have told my kids before when they feel overwhelmed or upset because things are not going right. I ask them how many times they have felt like they were not going to make it.

    Then I ask them to compare that with the number of times they actually did not make it.

    Which is zero.

    You just have to keep going.

    The sun will come up tomorrow. Most times, things improve. Some things even turn out better than you expect. That’s what happened to me.

    We tend to forget about those moments faster than the bad ones. That’s just how people are.

    None of this means you never stop, reassess, or change course. Sometimes getting smacked in the face is a sign you need to do one of those things.

    But minor adversity is not a reason to curl up into a ball.

    God has you. God knows what you need. He knows better than you do.

    Just keep going like it’s going to work out. Partly because that’s often the most productive thing you can do. Mainly because it usually does work out.

    You just don’t see it yet.

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  • A Small Shift That Changes Everything

    A Small Shift That Changes Everything

    The way you look at things makes a big difference in how your life looks.

    When one of my daughters was little, there were nights after a long day where it was my turn to feed her and I really didn’t want to do it. I wasn’t angry. I was just tired and being pulled away from something I wanted to keep doing.

    One night it hit me that this wasn’t going to last very long. There would come a time when she wouldn’t need me to feed her at all. And more than that, I’d probably wish I could.

    And that’s exactly what happened.

    But before it happened, once I had that thought my attitude towards the whole thing changed.

    Afterwards I never got irritated about stopping what I was doing to feed the baby.

    If anything, I went too far the other direction. I didn’t want anyone else to do it because I didn’t want to miss one. That caused its own problems.

    Turns out other people like feeding babies too.

    Nothing about the situation changed. The only thing that changed was how I framed it.

    That happens all the time in life. The way you think about something can completely change your attitude toward it, even when the facts stay the same.

    It happens in real estate constantly.

    A deal falls apart. A buyer changes their mind. Someone won’t agree to terms you need them to agree to. It doesn’t work. That can be frustrating, especially when you’ve invested time and effort into it.

    What I’ve found, though, is that when you stay on your principles, something better usually comes along fairly quickly. The same thing happens with clients.

    It’s not magic. It’s not a guarantee. Sometimes things just are what they are.

    But you still get a choice. You can get upset and stew over it, or you can choose to look at it as something that’s likely working out for the best, even if you don’t see how yet.

    That mindset alone improves your attitude and your demeanor, and that tends to improve everything else that follows.

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    Would it be a bad idea to prepare for it like it’s something that could happen, even if it probably won’t?

    Kind of like having a gun for self defense. Everyone plans and hopes to never use it for that. But it’s better to have it and not need it than vice versa.

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