Tag: personal growth

  • It Ain’t Gonna Act On Itself

    It Ain’t Gonna Act On Itself

    When I first started in the land business, I worked with my dad. On my wall right now there’s an old black-and-white aerial of the Celina/Prosper area that he kept back then—right next to a shiny new one.

    I spent hours researching ownerships and mailing letters to the owners. Finding phone numbers for those old entities was tough, but I’ve always found writing works better for me anyway.

    One of the responses I got was from a guy who said he wasn’t ready to sell yet but might be soon.

    My dad kept telling me to follow up.

    I kept saying the time wasn’t right—I didn’t want to pester the guy.

    (If stubbornness counts as a super-power, that’s mine.)

    Then one day after lunch I just had the idea it was time to call. So I did.

    Turned out the thing the owner had been waiting on was finished that very morning.

    He gave me pricing on all three of his tracts. I called a buyer and sold them.

    Dad said I got lucky.

    Maybe I did. But here’s the thing: I had the idea—and I acted. Right then.

    You don’t need all good ones. Most will be duds. But the practice keeps your mind working and gets you closer to the one that matters.

    Here’s the catch: the best idea in the world is worthless until you act on it.

    Every building you see started as an idea in a developer’s head. But it didn’t stop there. He went out, bought the land, got plans drawn, found financing, built it.

    And it wasn’t smooth. Nothing worth doing ever is. It just looks that way to the observer.

    The difference between most people and that developer is simple: he acted—before he had all the details figured out. You can’t know every step in advance, especially the first time you try something new.

    What you can do is put together the best plan you can today—and take the first step. Do something every day that moves it forward.

    As you go, you’ll find things that need adjusting. You’ll hit snags you didn’t foresee. You adjust, you keep going.

    That’s how the idea turns into a result. And often, the final result is better than what you first imagined—because you kept improving it along the way.

    ***You probably aren’t ready to sell your land today. But one day you might decide the time is right, and it will be time to act.

    It will be much easier if you’ve been staying abreast of things ahead of time.

    Is there ever a bad time to get an expert in your corner so you’re ready when it’s time?

    You can do that below.


  • Good Enough Gets Better Results Than Perfect

    Good Enough Gets Better Results Than Perfect

    If you’re trying to “get it right” before you start, you’re probably lying to yourself.

    I’ve written before about goal setting and success, and the basic formula is pretty simple:

    1. Decide what you want.
    2. Figure out what it’ll take to get there — or what it’ll cost.

    Then comes the step everyone forgets: check if what you did actually worked. If it did, great. If it didn’t, adjust and repeat. Every round should get you closer.

    Most people get stuck at step 2. I see it all the time. A client once told me they were “waiting until they figured everything out” before listing their land. A year later, prices dipped, interest rates spiked, and the window they thought they had disappeared.

    That’s the trap.

    If you’ve never done something before, you probably don’t know the “right” way to do it. You’ve got two choices:

    • Start now, learn as you go, and adjust along the way.
    • Or wait until you have every detail perfect before taking the first step.

    Guess which one succeeds faster? Right — the first one.

    Guess which one most people pick anyway? Also right — the second one.

    And we know it, but we can’t help ourselves. We decide we want everything lined up before we move.

    Not because failure is fatal, but because we don’t want anyone to see us fail.

    The irony? Nobody’s watching.

    Here’s the truth: perfectionism and procrastination are the same thing.

    Perfectionism just wears a tuxedo and pretends it’s working hard.

    We tell ourselves we’re “waiting until we figure it out,” but we’re really just putting off action. We make it sound smart. Responsible. Even strategic.

    But deep down, it’s fear in a tailored suit.

    Stop trying to perfect everything. Most of the time, “good enough” is exactly what gets results.

    Take land, for example. Maybe it’s not the right time for you to sell — or buy — today. That’s fine. But here’s the thing: how will you know when the timing is right if you’re not paying attention?

    It doesn’t have to be perfect to start. The first step is knowing where you stand right now.

    Is it ever the wrong time to have a quick conversation and get the facts from someone you trust?