The more someone insists they’re holding all the cards, the less likely it is they actually are.
There’s a funny thing that happens in real estate whenever the market heats up — or whenever someone wants you to think it’s heating up.
Suddenly every listing has “tons of offers.”
I talked about it some yesterday.
If you’ve tried buying a house recently, you’ve heard it.
And if you’re an agent with more than six months of experience, you’ve watched it happen enough times to know the truth:
Sometimes they do.
And sometimes… they really don’t.
“Multiple offers” can mean actual competition.
Or it can mean one lowball offer the agent never countered, but is counting anyway “for negotiation purposes.”
It can mean thirty showings and legitimate interest.
Or it can mean two neighbors stopped by because they were curious and the agent wants to sound busy.
It can mean the seller is in a strong position. Or it can mean the agent is manufacturing pressure because they don’t know what else to do.
Here’s the reality nobody likes to say out loud:
A lot of agents inflate their position because they think it helps them negotiate. It doesn’t.
When an agent calls me and asks if I’m working anything, I tell them the truth.
Every time.
Doesn’t seem like something that’s to my advantage. But because of that, they know I’m telling the truth.
And you know what happens? They remember it.
They realize I’m one of the few who isn’t trying to run a tactic on them.
And that means the next time I tell them something, they believe me. That kind of credibility compounds.
On the rare occasion I’m working with a buyer and the listing agent hits me with the classic,
“We’ve got SO many offers…”
I just tell them:
“No problem. Call me if you don’t get a deal done.”
Two things happen:
- My client wins by not wasting time in a bidding war they wouldn’t win anyway.
Opportunistic buyers don’t chase. They wait. - The listing agent gets an easy way to save face when their “multiple offers” evaporate.
And they usually do.
Most agents are so busy trying to look strong that they forget you can’t negotiate your way past reality.
And you definitely can’t negotiate past your own credibility.
When the truth eventually shows up — and it always does — people remember who inflated and who didn’t.
And the next time they have to choose which agent to believe…
they choose the one who didn’t play games.
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PS- You’re probably not looking to sell today, but remember it’s always best to start preparing ahead of time.
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